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Lisa Rosendahl's avatar

I am searching for my voice. My first few posts have included leadership lessons, transitions, and real-life happenings. I'm looking for "the thing" that calls to me because the words flow so easily when I have it. If I find myself trying too hard, it tells me this is not the proper subject, not the right time, or not my voice.

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Stephanie Duncan Smith's avatar

I honor your practice!

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Jonathan King's avatar

Beautiful. Timely. Helpful. Thank you.

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Jonathan King's avatar

Just this week I heard for the first time Steven Wilson Jr.'s song "Grief is only love" and I've been meditating on that idea. For me, grief is finding a place to go, as it were, in poetry.

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Stephanie Duncan Smith's avatar

I like that slant! What a good place for grief to go.

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With Love, Jezreel Herbs's avatar

I love that prayer so much. Can I share the image and give you credit?

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Stephanie Duncan Smith's avatar

Of course!

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Anna Morgan's avatar

Such great reminders and encouragement, thank you tons!!

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Alison Acheson's avatar

Ah--so good to see one of your creativity prayers! Thank you!

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Stephanie Duncan Smith's avatar

They're baaaack! :)

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Alison Acheson's avatar

Seriously--I've missed them, and am glad you are sharing these with us again :) Thank you!

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Ryan Kuja's avatar

So so helpful! Writing today and this helped me move through a draft :) Thank you Stephanie.

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Stephanie Duncan Smith's avatar

Love to hear it. Thanks, Ryan!

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Helen C. Gennari's avatar

Love and grief or like light and darkness~~we can't have one without the other.

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Stephanie Duncan Smith's avatar

Love the imagery play here!

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Cassandra Speer's avatar

I’m currently wrestling with this on the page. So grateful for your insight!

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Stephanie Duncan Smith's avatar

Toasting your courage as you do!

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Darron D. Hilaire Jnr's avatar

I love that I found you

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Sarah's avatar

Thank you. Your prayer is more powerful than you might realise. I’ve learned that my grief is all the love I needed to get as a child, but didn’t. That is the root of my heartbreak. This is not the norm. Nor should it be. I write to give myself a voice and to give others a voice to their unseen grief, so that we can grieve, and learn to love ourselves, allow ourselves to be loved, and love others the way God loves us.

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Dorette Kriel's avatar

Hi, thank you for being such an encouragement on my writing journey. I'm trying out different angles (also writing different content as a PT and from personal life experience), but somehow I'm also drawn to use metaphors or poetry (where I'm pretty sure I'm breaking all the rules), but that is how the words come to me when trying to make sense of life.

Mostly, I write for therapy, currently processing events surrounding the death of my brother eight years ago, who also went missing twice. So, these quotes on grief resonated as well.

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